Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Writing on happiness

When people write on what happiness is, usually they don’t actually write about what happiness is but where it comes from. The reason they do this is because anyone who feels emotions knows what happiness is. Describing happiness requires a poet, not a philosopher or a mental health clinician.

Nevertheless, it is very useful to describe happiness by its source. For this reason, I am using this post to summarize the different facets of happiness and where I believe true happiness comes from. When I've made a post on a particular facet or source, I will make the corresponding bullet point a link that will take you directly to the appropriate post.
  • Happiness is the sensation of being created
  • Happiness is having dignity
  • Happiness is knowing you’re a person of worth
  • Happiness is having a purpose
  • Happiness is in positive thinking
  • Happiness is belonging to something greater than yourself
  • Happiness is seeing your life as not your own
  • Happiness is being in a story
  • Happiness is more than material wealth
  • Happiness is hope
  • Happiness is putting people over things
  • Happiness is face-to-face conversation

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

About this Blog

As long as human beings have had emotions, happiness has likely been the object of the most fascination, fixation, and pursuit. The pursuit of happiness has long been considered so important to human existence that it was made a right in the United States constitution. Yet at the same time, happiness is elusive for so many. It is not Schizophrenia, or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, or Autism that predominates mental health treatment, but Major Depression and other depressive disorders.

Yet help does not arrive for many. Suicide is a leading cause of death in the world today. People report dissatisfaction in their lives, careers, homes to the media. Many turn to substances like alcohol and drugs to cope with the pain of living. Thousands of dollars poor into mental health treatment for those diagnosed with depression disorders.

It is clear that even though we may be pursuing it, happiness is eluding us. Why is this? When there is so much to enjoy in this world, when people are living longer at a higher standard of living, when technology makes living and working easier, why are so many people unhappy?

I don’t have all the answers. I wouldn’t even say that I have most of them. I’m certainly not an expert (though I am a licensed professional counselor in the state of Ohio), and there have been many times in my life where I, too, have been upset enough to consider quitting the game of life. But I think I have some of the answers, and I want to share them with you. Welcome to the Pursuit of Happiness, a blog containing the meager compilation of wisdom I have gathered from my friends, enemies, teachers, and my own life on happiness. May it enlighten you and bring you joy.